Bidslammer claims I won. However, eBay says otherwise. I did not win which then you take that as a successful snipe that I paid for and yet was not successful.

Hello Chris,
Thank you for your question about the incorrect win status. We credited your snipe. We appreciate your bringing this to our attention as a few other customers did. Private auctions (as this one is) are more difficult to determine win status. Our next software release will address this.
Please let us know if we can help further, we are happy to help.